Focus

What we place our attention on happens. I knew someone long ago that laughed and teased his friend because he locked the keys in his car. What do you think happened shortly after. Within a week or two, he also locked his keys in his car.

How we focus our thoughts is important. Our thoughts either internal or spoken carry a vibration. If the focus is negative in
nature it will return to us that way. Usually we don't recognize it. We think instead why are these things happening? I'm a good person.

Of course deep down we are all beautiful and blessed beings. It's the surface personality that needs to be cleaned up.

Shift the focus onto beginning to transform what is said or thought in the most positive way. Stay away from degrading words. Put downs are not allowed. Pretend you are speaking to yourself. How would what your planning to say make you feel? Direct conversation with this in mind.

If the focus is positive and uplifting it will return to you that way.

Tone is so important. Keep the tone of voice in a good manner. We all know how snarky voices make us feel.

One thing to keep in mind...-...IT'S ALL ABOUT THE SPEAKER.

If someone is mean, it's about them. If your mean, it's about you.

If someone directs their thoughts to you like their spitting nails, step aside. Mentally repeat, no thanks.
If you happen to spit verbal nails to someone by mistake apologize as fast as you can.

We have been taught by many in our upbringing through unawareness, now through choice we can replace the tools in our toolbox.

Experience and enjoy the magic you create in life.